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Monday, May 23, 2011

When is giving up "ok"?

I think sometimes there comes a time in everyones life when they actually have to "give up" and put thier hands up and say "i can't do this" and "even though this sucks I can't do it" I know reciently we've had to do this as a family. Our whole lives we're always said to not give up, never EVER give up, don't ever turn your back but as I've grown older I've realized this actually isn't true. There are some  times in life that you have to give up because it's the right thing to do. Sometimes giving up is actually like "not giving up" If you haven't come to this in your life yet you might, you might not, but when you do take time and look at both ends and know that not always is it right to just always keep going.

Dear *******,
I know that giving up might not look like it was the harder decision but it was. Giving up and saying it couldn't be done was probably one of the hardest desicions. I'm sorry and I hope that one day you understand. You might never but know it was for the best. Sometimes giving up is the most love you can give. <3 --till the day you understand.